The Most Empowering Decision of Your Life Is To...
I was looking at my husband tossing our son up in the air. The squealing of happiness was loud but the worrying thoughts in my head were even lounder.
“Don’t drop him”!
“Trust me! I will always catch him”.
My son totally trusted his daddy. He felt safe, he felt happy, and he was fully in the present moment.
I’ve always considered myself a “spiritual” person. I am always the first one to say: “The universe has your back”, “You are being guided”, “Everything happens for a reason.”
I have discovered a long time ago that the best choice you can make in life is to … SURRENDER and trust.
But there are days when I question myself…
How much do I REALLY believe?
Am I TRULY living it?
Most importantly: What do I really trust in?
That I am always going to be Ok?
That I will never get hurt?
That I will always be successful at what I am doing?
I have learned a long time ago that this is not what trusting really means.
To truly surrender means to allow being hurt to accept failures as success and happiness.
To truly let go means no longer trying to control the outcomes whilst being fully in charge of the decisions you make.
It also means trusting that every decision you make is the right decision (no matter what the outcome is) as you are being guided.
Will it make you passive and powerless? Do you just have to sit down and wait for things to happen to you?
The opposite! The moment you truly surrender you connect to the source of your unlimited power.
- You no longer question your decisions – you just make them.
- You no longer second guess your choices.
- You are no longer afraid to be yourself.
- You feel more powerful than your fear.
- You fully in the present moment as you understand that the future is being taken care of.
It is the most empowering feeling, and I know it well. But I am also familiar with the doubt. I question it every time I share my message with others and all I get in return is: “do you also still believe in fairies?”
But the secret to not giving up on my beliefs is not about never doubting them. The secret lies in doing the work EVERY DAY. It is a full-time job until it becomes a habit.
And it is hard work that sometimes feels like a fight with yourself, your old self, the one who is used to giving up, the one who prefers to be negative, the victim who had a “tough life” who was hurt, whose heart was broken into pieces… the one who “is trying her best “. It is a powerful opponent… I face her almost every day.
Over the last few years, I have discovered and created many tools and practices that supported me on my journey to surrender.
I became a life coach to share those tools with others.
One of my favourite and the most successful tool is a personalised meditation that I prepare for each of my clients. It is based on their individual beliefs and needs. It helps you experience that feeling of empowering surrender and make authentically confident decisions in your life.
If you feel like you find it hard to believe and surrender if making decisions became a burden and you would like to experience that feeling of confident decision making book your call and I will be happy to help you.
Oh… and I do still believe in fairies!